A Rose About to Bloom (ePub)

Growing up in a rural well known town in the Tidewater region of Virginia, there
are some things that the area is known for. The famous ports that harbor some of
the most notorious ocean liners known to the US Military, great southern recipes,
local colleges and universities that graduate some of the best sports champions, and
some of the finest flower blossoms ever to be seen in the heart of the south. I never really
paid much attention to the former, but through an amazing journey of headaches and heart
breaks became quite familiar with the latter.
Something that I never realized was how very crucial it was to protect a rosebud, from the
elements of bitter cold that crept back in after the season for blossoming had arrived.
I remember grandmamma saying youd better cover my bushes, this cold snap will destroy
my buds. And now I can see the importance of protecting the very delicate plant, from
elements that would damage the vital process of growth and maturation into a full blossom.
What is even more important to understand is the purpose of the Rose itself to Gods
creation, and what is the priority of implementing every plan necessesary for its protection.
Why it is not just the flower itself but its distinctly innocent purpose for beauty and joy in the
scope of its existence. How God could create something so delicate and so brilliantly and
uniquely detailed for an appearance, an aroma, an authenticity never seen nor known to mere
man. I will make every effort to draw assimilation from the development of a natural rose to
that of a spiritual impartation in the mindset of a young puberty age person forming morals
values, concepts, identities, etc.. that, will ultimately determine how they interact and
exchange in covenant or consequential relationships.
Are you ready to take a close look at one of the most painful, yet truthfully necessary to
talk about issues in our society. From the days of Biblical families to the most recent decades
of new wave cultural families. We must stop trying to cover up the ugly details of sexual
perversion and taboo issues of incest and sexual abuse that occurs every day to some young
person, who is in the most crucial stage of physical and spiritual development. Sexual abuse
stops the process of a life that will never truly be what all it could, had the interruption in the
process never occurred. When a person is sexually abused there is an interruption that occurs
with their own perception of themselves and the beginning of low-self esteem and other ugly
manifestations, of a victimization not asked for or warranted occurs. Thus, it is an interruption
of a Rose About to Bloom.
I will praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are your works, And that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, when I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Psalms 139:14-15 NKJ

I believe that just as the Rose when exposed to the extreme and brutal external
environments, inclement temperatures and the like is damaged; also is the life of the young
person affected tremendously when they are exposed to invading demonic impositions through
intruders of sinful activities. Like the life of the Rose is in severe danger under these conditions,
causing adverse effects on its growth and development, so it is with a young adolescent who
when exposed to the cruel environment of sexual perversion, incest, pornography, is
ultimately, gravely affected mentally, physically, emotionally and interpersonally.
Visualize the rose pedals being peeled away bearing the naked appearance of the rose;
when one is molested sexually, a slice of you is taken away until finally your raw soul is left
with hurt, bitterness, and pain. Many are left with trust issues which cause continuous
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