Sex and Lies
True Stories of Women's Intimate Lives in the Arab World
(Sprache: Englisch)
"Jaw-dropping . . . Inspiring . . . A haunting and beautifully composed book . . . It blew my mind." --Lisa Taddeo, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Three Women
A fearless exposé of the secrets and lies of women's intimate lives, by the...
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"Jaw-dropping . . . Inspiring . . . A haunting and beautifully composed book . . . It blew my mind." --Lisa Taddeo, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Three WomenA fearless exposé of the secrets and lies of women's intimate lives, by the bestselling author of The Perfect Nanny, Adèle, and In the Country of Others
"All those in positions of authority--politicians, parents, teachers--maintain the same line: 'Do what you like, but do it in private.' "
Leila Slimani was in her native Morocco promoting her novel Adèle, about a woman addicted to sex, when she began meeting women who confided the dark secrets of their sexual lives. In Morocco, adultery, abortion, homosexuality, prostitution, and sex outside of marriage are all punishable by law, and women have only two choices: They can be wives or virgins. Sex and Lies combines vivid, often harrowing testimonies with Slimani's passionate and intelligent commentary to make a galvanizing case for a sexual revolution in the Arab world.
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INTRODUCTION When, in the summer of 2014, I published my first novel, Adèle, some French journalists expressed surprise that a Moroccan woman could write such a book. What they meant by that was an unconstrained book , a sexy book , a straight-talking, popular book, the story of a woman suffering from sex addiction. As if, by culture, I should have been more prudish, more reserved. As if I should have made do with writing an erotic novelette with orientalist shades, worthy scion of Scheherazade that I am.
Yet I feel that North Africans are well placed to take on themes relating to sexual suffering, frustration and alienation. The fact of living or having grown up in societies without sexual freedom makes sex a subject of constant obsession. Besides, sex is one issue that s well represented in contemporary North African writing. It s there in the autobiographical novels of Mohamed Choukri, in the poetry and novels of Tahar Ben Jelloun, in the novels and criticism of Mohamed Leftah and in the novels and films about gay life of Abdellah Taïa. Erotic, even steamy, literature continues to be reinvented particularly among women, such as Lebanese writer Joumana Haddad and Syrian writer Salwa Al Neimi, whose novel The Proof of the Honey became a bestseller, following in the footsteps of the mysterious Nedjma, eponymous protagonist of the novel by Kateb Yacine.
So my first novel is in no way exceptional. I can even say it s no accident that I created a character like Adèle a frustrated woman who lies and leads a double life. She s a woman eaten by regrets and by her own hypocrisy, a woman who steps out of line yet never experiences pleasure. Adèle is, in a way, a rather extreme metaphor for the sexual experience of young Moroccan women.
When my novel was published, I insisted on doing a book tour around Morocco, to present my book in several of the country s cities. I visited bookshops, universities and libraries. I accepted invitations from charities
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and support groups. The two weeks of my tour were a true revelation. I had never doubted the hunger for debate among those I was going to meet, but at every one of my encounters I was struck by how a discussion on the subject of sex enthused people, especially younger people. After the sessions, many, many women came up to me wanting to talk, to tell me their stories. Novels have a magical way of forging a very intimate connection between writers and their readers, of toppling the barriers of shame and mistrust. My hours with those women were very special. And it s their stories I have tried to give back: the impassioned testimonies of a time and of its suffering.
My intention here is not to document a sociological study nor to write an essay about sex in Morocco. Eminent sociologists and brilliant journalists are already doing this enormously delicate work. What I want is to render these women s words directly, as they were spoken to me: their intense and resonant speech, the stories that shook me, upset me, that angered and sometimes disgusted me. I want to give these often painful angles on life a platform in a society where many men and women prefer to turn away. By telling me their life stories, by choosing to break taboos, all of these women showed one thing, at least: that their lives matter. They should and do count. By confiding in me, they chose, if only for a few hours, to step out of isolation and to invite other women to realise that they re not alone. This is what makes their accounts political, committed, liberating. At the time of these encounters, I often returned to Moroccan sociologist Fatima Mernissi s remarks about Scheherazade a superb figure but also, at times, a burdensome precedent for Muslim women: She would cure the troubled King s soul simply by talking to him about things that had happ
My intention here is not to document a sociological study nor to write an essay about sex in Morocco. Eminent sociologists and brilliant journalists are already doing this enormously delicate work. What I want is to render these women s words directly, as they were spoken to me: their intense and resonant speech, the stories that shook me, upset me, that angered and sometimes disgusted me. I want to give these often painful angles on life a platform in a society where many men and women prefer to turn away. By telling me their life stories, by choosing to break taboos, all of these women showed one thing, at least: that their lives matter. They should and do count. By confiding in me, they chose, if only for a few hours, to step out of isolation and to invite other women to realise that they re not alone. This is what makes their accounts political, committed, liberating. At the time of these encounters, I often returned to Moroccan sociologist Fatima Mernissi s remarks about Scheherazade a superb figure but also, at times, a burdensome precedent for Muslim women: She would cure the troubled King s soul simply by talking to him about things that had happ
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Autoren-Porträt von Leila Slimani
Leila Slimani is the bestselling author of The Perfect Nanny, one of The New York Times Book Review's 10 Best Books of the Year, for which she became the first Moroccan woman to win France's most prestigious literary prize, the Goncourt. Her first novel, Adèle, about a sex-addicted woman in Paris, won the La Mamounia Prize for the best book by a Moroccan author written in French and gave rise to Sex and Lies. A journalist and frequent commentator on women's and human rights, Slimani spearheaded a campaign--for which she won the Simone de Beauvoir Prize for women's freedom--to help Moroccan women speak out, as self-declared outlaws, against their country's "unfair and obsolete laws." She is French president Emmanuel Macron's personal representative for the promotion of the French language and culture and was ranked #2 on Vanity Fair France's annual list of the Fifty Most Influential French People in the World. Born in Rabat, Morocco, in 1981, she now lives in Paris with her French husband and their two young children.
Bibliographische Angaben
- Autor: Leila Slimani
- 2020, 176 Seiten, Maße: 13,1 x 19,4 cm, Kartoniert (TB), Englisch
- Übersetzer: Sophie Lewis
- Verlag: Penguin
- ISBN-10: 0143133764
- ISBN-13: 9780143133766
- Erscheinungsdatum: 14.07.2020
Sprache:
Englisch
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As revealing as Lisa Taddeo s bestseller Three Women, but it has a more urgent political mission. . . . Like Adèle did before it, this slim book of impassioned pleas, and of human impulses that resonate, is one step to more women breaking free. Evening StandardSlimani s searing nonfiction debut unearths the deepest and most intimate secrets of a group of women in a culture where sexual autonomy is punished by law. Newsweek
Impassioned . . . a call-to-arms. Elle
A compassionate and searing examination of women in Morocco and the Arab world. Ms.
Vivid, at times unbearable testimonies . . . In an act of rare humility and generosity, Slimani offers [these women] what they've been deprived of: a space to tell their stories, to exist. San Francisco Chronicle
Infuriating, heartbreaking stories of the ways in which [women s] desires, happiness, and autonomy have been stunted by a system that denies their validity or very existence. The New York Review of Books
Potent . . . An ensemble portrait of women drawn together through the force of pressures they all face . . . Slimani keeps a light presence in the interviews, not unlike Svetlana Alexievich s conversations with former Soviet women soldiers. John Freeman, Lit Hub
Provocative and disturbing, fervent and moving. BookPage
Graceful . . . Deft . . . Nuanced and sophisticated . . . An elegant, accentless translation . . . I d read Slimani s 2016 Goncourt Prize winning novel, The Perfect Nanny, experiencing her as a thrillingly precise writer, her observations so sharp they flensed away every flabby stereotype. . . . Slimani has brought that same quality of attention to bear on this book. . . . [She] gives these women their due. Lina Mounzer, The Baffler
Open[s] the eyes of the reader to universal challenges for women . . . You ll learn something or feel
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something in each essay. Book Riot
Powerful . . . Balancing potent anecdotal accounts with incisive cultural analysis, Slimani makes a persuasive case that breaking the silence around sexuality is essential to advancing Muslim women s social and economic rights. This eye-opening account strikes a resounding chord. Publishers Weekly
A passionate, candid, and convincing narrative of unmasking and revelation. Kirkus Reviews
I salute Leila Slimani for writing this important, honest and brave book. . . . As a writer from a Turkish background, I am moved by Slimani s words. The women she talks to could just as well have been Lebanese, Syrian, Jordanian, Palestinian, Iranian, Turkish. Elif Shafak, New Statesman
Challenge[s] one of the Arab world s great taboos . . . [and] provides a rare, and perhaps unique, look into a patriarchal Arab society laden with hypocrisy. The Times (U.K.)
Slimani deserves credit for giving a voice to those for whom just being myself is activism. The Spectator
A gripping portrait of a society riven by inner conflict, poised on a power-keg of desire. The Sydney Morning Herald
Sex and Lies does not lack for passion [and] raises legitimate questions. Financial Times
Well executed: the novelist paints vivid portraits of her interviewees. Sunday Times (U.K.)
An original book. Cosmopolitan (U.K.)
Searing . . . Page-turning. AnOther Magazine
Fascinating and surprising. Elle (France)
A nuanced and pragmatic reflection on the situation of women in Morocco and in the Arab-Muslim world. L'Express
Powerful . . . Balancing potent anecdotal accounts with incisive cultural analysis, Slimani makes a persuasive case that breaking the silence around sexuality is essential to advancing Muslim women s social and economic rights. This eye-opening account strikes a resounding chord. Publishers Weekly
A passionate, candid, and convincing narrative of unmasking and revelation. Kirkus Reviews
I salute Leila Slimani for writing this important, honest and brave book. . . . As a writer from a Turkish background, I am moved by Slimani s words. The women she talks to could just as well have been Lebanese, Syrian, Jordanian, Palestinian, Iranian, Turkish. Elif Shafak, New Statesman
Challenge[s] one of the Arab world s great taboos . . . [and] provides a rare, and perhaps unique, look into a patriarchal Arab society laden with hypocrisy. The Times (U.K.)
Slimani deserves credit for giving a voice to those for whom just being myself is activism. The Spectator
A gripping portrait of a society riven by inner conflict, poised on a power-keg of desire. The Sydney Morning Herald
Sex and Lies does not lack for passion [and] raises legitimate questions. Financial Times
Well executed: the novelist paints vivid portraits of her interviewees. Sunday Times (U.K.)
An original book. Cosmopolitan (U.K.)
Searing . . . Page-turning. AnOther Magazine
Fascinating and surprising. Elle (France)
A nuanced and pragmatic reflection on the situation of women in Morocco and in the Arab-Muslim world. L'Express
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